Your wedding band will help set the tone for one of the biggest celebrations of your life. Whether you’re dreaming of a romantic first dance, an energy-filled dance floor, or music that gets every guest smiling, choosing the right band can make all the difference.
To help you find the perfect fit, we’ve rounded up the top five questions couples ask when booking a wedding band — plus honest, helpful answers from the experts on MyBigDay.ie.
- 🎶 What type of music do most wedding bands play?
Wedding bands in Ireland tend to be wonderfully versatile. On MyBigDay.ie, you’ll find bands that cover everything from pop, rock, and soul to traditional Irish music, swing, jazz, country, and current chart-toppers.
Most bands come prepared with setlists that span the decades — think Motown classics, 80s anthems, 90s throwbacks, and modern hits — so all ages can enjoy the celebration. If you have a specific style in mind (like indie, folk, or jazz), many bands will tailor their performance to match the vibe you’re going for. It’s your soundtrack — make it yours!
2. 📅 How far in advance should we book a wedding band?
The earlier, the better. We recommend booking your wedding band at least 12 to 18 months in advance, especially if you’re getting married during peak season (May to September) or on a weekend. The best bands can book up quickly, and once your venue and date are locked in, your entertainment should be one of the next items on your to-do list.
Don’t worry if you’re planning on a shorter timeline — there are still plenty of fantastic options available on MyBigDay.ie. Use our filters to search by availability and location, and reach out to bands directly to check their calendar.
- 💃 Can we request specific songs — including our first dance?
Absolutely. Most wedding bands are more than happy to perform a special song for your first dance, even if it’s not already in their repertoire. Just give them enough notice (usually 4–6 weeks), so they have time to learn and rehearse it.
You’ll also typically have the option to provide a “must-play” list and a “do-not-play” list. Whether you love a good ABBA singalong or want to steer clear of certain cheesy classics, the band will work with you to craft a setlist that reflects your personality and keeps guests on the dance floor.
- ⏱️ How long do wedding bands typically perform?
Most bands perform for 2 to 3 hours, split into sets (often 2 x 60 minutes or 3 x 45 minutes), with short breaks in between. During those breaks, some bands will play background music to keep the energy up.
Many also offer add-on options like live ceremony music, acoustic sets for the drinks reception, or even a DJ set to keep the party going into the early hours. Be sure to ask what’s included in their base package and what’s available at an additional cost.
- 💸 What does a typical wedding band package include?
Every band is different, but a typical package usually includes:
- Live performance (2–3 hours, depending on the band)
- Professional sound and lighting equipment
- Setup and takedown time
- Travel within a certain radius
- A consultation or planning session to discuss your preferences
Some bands may also include a DJ set, MC services, or extra musicians (e.g., saxophone, violin, or percussion) for an additional fee. When reaching out, ask for a full breakdown of what’s included so you can compare options clearly and make the best decision for your day and your budget.
🎤 Final Thoughts
Your wedding band does more than just play music — they help set the mood, energise the crowd, and create those unforgettable moments that you and your guests will talk about for years. By asking the right questions upfront, you’ll find the perfect match who understands your style, your vision, and your vibe.
Ready to find the perfect band for your big day? Browse trusted, top-rated wedding bands on MyBigDay.ie and reach out directly to start the conversation. Your dream dance floor awaits!
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