When it comes to your wedding reception, nothing sets the tone quite like the music. Whether you’re dreaming of a non-stop party or something more low-key and laid-back, the right wedding DJ can bring your celebration to life and keep your guests on the dance floor all night long.
But how do you know if a DJ is the right fit for your wedding? What should you ask before booking?
Here are the top 5 questions Irish couples ask when hiring a wedding DJ — plus some helpful insights to guide your decision.
- Do You Take Song Requests — and Can We Share a Playlist in Advance?
Most couples have a strong sense of the music that defines them — the songs that got them through late nights, long drives, or their first dance. That’s why it’s important to know how much flexibility a DJ allows when it comes to playlists.
Some DJs will gladly build their set around your favourites. Others might have a more structured approach. Be sure to ask:
- Can we submit a must-play and do-not-play list?
- Will you accept song requests from guests on the night?
- Are you open to lesser-known or culturally specific songs?
Tip: The best DJs can read a crowd and seamlessly blend your musical tastes with what keeps the energy high.
- Have You Played at Our Venue Before — and Do You Bring Your Own Equipment?
Weddings are as much about logistics as they are about celebration. A DJ who knows your venue is already ahead of the game when it comes to setup, acoustics, and sound restrictions.
But even if they’re new to the venue, it’s no problem — just make sure to ask:
- Do you bring your own sound and lighting equipment?
- Do you need anything from us or the venue (like power or setup space)?
- How long do you need for setup and teardown?
Reliable equipment, smooth setup, and strong communication with the venue can make all the difference on the night.
- Do You Provide MC Services or Just the Music?
Not all DJs offer the same services. Some are happy to act as your informal MC — making announcements, cueing speeches, and calling guests to the dance floor. Others prefer to focus strictly on the music.
Decide what level of involvement you want from your DJ and ask questions like:
- Will you introduce the newlyweds, speeches, or first dance?
- Can you help manage the flow of the evening’s events?
Having someone who keeps the evening on track while also keeping the energy up can be a major bonus.
- How Do You Handle Guest Requests?
We all have that one friend who loves a surprise song request. While some wedding DJs welcome on-the-spot suggestions, others prefer to keep the playlist curated and on-theme.
Ask how your DJ handles guest input:
- Will you take guest requests during the night?
- Do you filter requests to avoid anything off-theme or inappropriate?
- How do you balance guest requests with the couple’s playlist?
A great DJ will always keep your preferences at the centre — while still reading the room to keep the dance floor alive.
- What’s Your Typical Set Length — and Can You Stay Late if Needed?
Let’s face it — not every wedding follows a perfect timeline. You may run late, or your guests might not want the party to end. Ask your DJ:
- How many hours are included in the standard package?
- Can we extend the set on the night if needed?
- What’s the cost for overtime?
You’ll also want to confirm arrival and teardown times to keep everything seamless with your venue’s closing schedule.
Bonus Tip: Choose a DJ Who Fits Your Vibe
Beyond the playlist, what really makes a wedding DJ great is personality and professionalism. Choose someone who listens to what you want, communicates clearly, and gets excited about your day. The right DJ will not only play the music you love — they’ll help shape the memories your guests talk about for years.
🎵 At MyBigDay.ie, we connect couples with experienced, trusted wedding DJs across Ireland who know how to deliver a high-energy, seamless experience — with professionalism, great gear, and even better playlists.
Ready to find the perfect DJ for your wedding day? Explore our top-rated suppliers and let the music (and dancing) begin.
